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Sex in the Second Trimester: Comfort, Desire and When to Call Your Provider

NNova editorial team · 6 min read

For most pregnancies, sex is safe in the second trimester, and position choice usually comes down to comfort. Ask your provider if you have a condition that calls for extra caution.

Sex in the Second Trimester: Comfort, Desire and When to Call Your Provider

Many people notice a change in sex drive during the second trimester. Nausea often eases, energy may return, and the growing belly is still manageable for many positions. Comfort, the specifics of your pregnancy and freedom from pain matter more than any single position.

Positions many people find more comfortable

  • Side-lying, facing each other or spooning.
  • Woman on top, if that feels good and you can control the movement.
  • Seated, facing each other.
  • Using pillows for support under the belly, between the knees or behind the back.

Some people also use condoms to lower the risk of sexually transmitted infections, which is a good idea whenever you have a new partner or are unsure of a partner's status.

Your provider may tell you to avoid sex or use pelvic rest if you have bleeding, fluid leaking from the vagina, placenta previa, a history of preterm labor, an infection or a cervix that is short or open. Call your provider if you have any of these after sex: vaginal bleeding, fluid leaking, regular or painful cramping, pelvic pressure, fever or chills. Call your provider right away or go to the nearest emergency room or labor and delivery unit if symptoms are strong or do not stop.

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General information only; it does not replace advice from your doctor or midwife.